Ever felt like it doesn’t matter what you try, what strategy you put in place, what product you come up with next, it just doesn’t matter because no one is really going to notice anyway? No matter how much you think you feel in alignment, the Universe doesn’t have your back?
It’s Soul destroying, to feel invisible to the world and out of the loop of achieving your dreams.
What if this struggle of paying the bills, sharing yourself between your loved ones, and the mundane routine of daily life really is as good as it gets?
It’s not easy being a big dreamer, especially when you start your business and you dip your toes into the water of what could be described as an overflowing ocean of talent and connections.
As far as you know you have done everything right.
You have followed the steps that propelled the high achievers before you, into their own light.
The proven path.
But nothing you throw your energy sticks, so you stand on the edge of the ocean with a heavy heart. Hoping and praying somebody notices you, that there is more to life than just spectating your dreams unfold for others, because right now you’re ready to give up on your dreams. It hurts too much to pursue the untouchable.
What you don’t know is you have an advantage while you stand there on the shore. Your view is quite different to others. Your mindset still developing and forming. Your focus still adjusting. You can see things others can’t.
So take your gaze from the horizon and look to those beside you. Your loved ones are standing next to you smiling at you with a sense of peace and patience only those that are certain of the outcome can give.
They feel your struggle, but they too can see something that only they can. Something you have long forgotten.
That you are already their dream come true. Their mother, their wife, their daughter, their sister, their aunty, their niece and their friend.
Grab the hands of the women beside you who are ready to swim with you.
They all see right through you into the seat of your Soul and they know you are going to make it. They know you were born to make a difference. Because you already are. To someone. You are everything.
Breathe. Feel the salt air on your face and deep in your lungs. Feel the weight of the love the world has for you and finally turn your back to that ocean. Surrender to spectating. Find you’re own path. Shine your own light. Because behind you are your tribe. Most you have never met, and the majority you never will, and like your loved ones they see something you don’t see.
A woman standing with her feet in the wet sand at the edge of the water, about to be swept up in the waves.
To your tribe, you have already made it.
So next time you’re ready to give up on your dreams, focus on those behind you, the sun on your face and the sounds of laughter dancing across the breeze. Enjoy this moment, because you won’t get it back. Time expands when you live in your truth. When you live in this very moment. This. Moment.
Help others get closer to water, and I promise you, the tide will come in for you. It always does.
And honestly, it already has.